Stop Saying 'I Feel Like'

There was a deeply compelling opinion piece in The New York Times posted a month ago called simply, "Stop Saying 'I Feel Like.'" 

There is so much good in this piece. I'd like you to read it. It has diagnosed a serious and pervasive issue in the modern West. After reading it I'm working on changing this speech pattern in my life, because as a Christian, I want to make decisions and express my opinions based on objective thinking not subjective feeling. 

There's food for thought for all of us.


NYT: In American politics, few forces are more powerful than a voter’s vague intuition. “I support Donald Trump because I feel like he is a doer,” a senior at the University of South Carolina told Cosmopolitan. “Personally, I feel like Bernie Sanders is too idealistic,” a Yale student explained to a reporter in Florida. At a Ted Cruz rally in Wisconsin in April, a Cruz fan declared, “I feel like I can trust that he will keep his promises.”

These people don’t think, believe or reckon. They “feel like.” Listen for this phrase and you’ll hear it everywhere, inside and outside politics. This reflex to hedge every statement as a feeling or a hunch is most common among millennials. But I hear it almost as often among Generation Xers and my own colleagues in academia. As in so many things, the young are early carriers of a broad cultural contagion.